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Igotworms
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Posted 9:48 pm, 03/02/2015
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OpenCasket i think your lacking a heart hense the reason your in a casket i guess
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chris1990
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Posted 9:44 pm, 03/02/2015
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Ones a cheater always a cheater always I'd move on find the right person
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sparkling water
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Posted 9:07 pm, 03/02/2015
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Remember that if you do the nasty divorce thing that the attorneys will win.
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decsurvey
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Posted 9:05 pm, 03/02/2015
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Time to start swinging so you can keep it all in house. No outside contractors.
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mssassy
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Posted 9:03 pm, 03/02/2015
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I would be going to my gynecologist and having some test run. He may be carrying the aids virus or herpes he could easily give you an std. And if he can't keep his barn door closed the horse is going to get out of the stable again. Here is you some free advice if he has done it once he has probably done it more times than he can remember. If you were the one doing the cheating do you think he would forgive you? I have been there and done that you can't ever trust them again.
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63 triumph
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Posted 8:54 pm, 03/02/2015
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Someone say something about FINLEY ?
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OpenCasket
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Posted 8:53 pm, 03/02/2015
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Who can afford marriage counseling in this economy? Y'all talk like you live in finley.
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sparkling water
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Posted 8:38 pm, 03/02/2015
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Musings:
Things don't always mean what they seem to mean. Nobody is truly honest. Couples can move past this to enjoy a meaningful relationship again. Possibly, some of the folk who urge you to dump this person have also suffered unfaithfulness and their answers are tempered by that experience. You will have to find your own answers either together or apart. A counselor may help, but probably will not. Most counsellors are more messed up than the clients they serve (they go to counseling school to get their own help).
Bottom line, if the two if you want to make it you will. If you don't, don't play around with it.
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empowers
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Posted 8:37 pm, 03/02/2015
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This has happened to me several times, husbands and lover. I got tired of it and gave up seeking 'love.' Now I don't worry about being betrayed or getting an STD.
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jewel1985
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Posted 8:33 pm, 03/02/2015
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For the life of me I don't get why men or women cheat, it doesn't only create a world of hurt but its disrespectful to the other person. I know its hard on you right now and the descion is up to you but once a cheater always a cheater ....just as zombie has said if he loved you he wouldn't have cheated. I say kick him to the curb and move on with your life I know its easier said than done, especially if children are involved but he screwed up not you and you and if you have children deserve better, jmo.
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shea
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Posted 8:27 pm, 03/02/2015
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It's about loyalty. When two people love each other, no one or anything can cause you to break it. When you have chosen your life partner whether you make vows before your god or just to each other, if one chooses no longer to be loyal to the other, the relationship is over. There is no going back. It will never be what it once was or what you thought it was. Life is too short to live your life with someone who will hurt you that way.
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Tmann
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Posted 8:24 pm, 03/02/2015
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50 is right . No decision right now is going to be good decision. Stop, think and get to the bottom of the real issues.
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thegwliar
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Posted 8:23 pm, 03/02/2015
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To every one that has answered has this happened to you.
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Like2Laugh
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Posted 8:20 pm, 03/02/2015
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OpenCasket (view profile) | Posted 7:22 pm, 03/02/2015 | If you love someone you don't cheat therefore her husband does not love her. They both need to move on. |
Dead on!!
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kenc
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Posted 7:58 pm, 03/02/2015
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Above all think of yourself , remember he put both of you in this situation . I'm sure he would tell you now, that he'd forgive and forget if you cheated. But would he ?
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MyFirstTime
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Posted 7:58 pm, 03/02/2015
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It pretty much comes down to you and him and what you want to do. Regardless of what anyone on here says, it's your decision. If you want to forgive him, then forgive him and work on it. If not, don't. Either way, it's your decision and no one elses. You are you own person.
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thegoodthebadtheugly
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Posted 7:49 pm, 03/02/2015
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Scorched earth theory of war. That's what you should do. Face forward. Look it up. Never look back at what you left burning. IMHO
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OpenCasket
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Posted 7:48 pm, 03/02/2015
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For me it would be an easy decision. Maybe I lack something......
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Hepsibah
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Posted 7:33 pm, 03/02/2015
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Open Casket: You make it sound so easy. Hopefully, the op will get there (wherever THERE is!) and make some decisions.
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